信任 trust

The fundamentals of friendship is trust. But between strangers, trust only happen if one person where to trust another first. Meaning it is a give and take event.
To gain one's trust, you must first being able to trust that person.

Trust only comes unconditionally from your parents.
But it will grow into expectations....because of that i have learn how to swim in the overflowing expectations of my parents and to find the hole for the water to flow out. Too much of something could upset the balanced easily.
Now. my sister is drowning in that expectation. I wanted to save her but it's not easy, as the solution is to change my parents perception of the world. And they are unwilling  to change that point of view.

"Student should do nothing but study. "

Ah well, but my sister is doing well at this rate. She'll always fight for any chance to play. Sometimes i do wish my previous self was more like her. After all...we should be the one to decide what's best for ourselves. Compared to her, i was the more obedient type. I'm a coward to stand for myself and fight for my worth.
So i do trust my sister that she would live up to her worth.

Anyway, i've been trying to remind myself to stop helping or saving anyone....unless i'm sure i could do it. Or things will end up badly. Sometimes i really tend to forget the limitations of a human being= =

I trust all my friends to some point. But most of them don't know much about me XDDDDD
My best friends can open their heart to me =) and we'll always be together because we are an important part of each other, even though we are separated physically, trying to achieve our own dreams. And we trust one another to lead our lives well. I wish i could quickly meet them again.

The rate of trust is directly perpendicular to the rate of friendship growth. 
Naturally where trust dies the friendship also dies.
My dad always tell me don't trust anyone completely = =
but there are people who i can always trust no matter what ^_____^~